For decades, our schools have focused almost entirely on the mind. We measure intelligence, assign grades, and reward academic achievement, often overlooking a vital part of the human experience: the body. From its very design, education has been head-centered, leaving out what actually drives learning, behavior, and connection—the nervous system.
Too often, behavior is treated as a “top-down” issue. A child who fidgets is told to “sit still.” A student who refuses to participate is labeled “defiant.” But behavior is rarely just a matter of choice or willpower. It is deeply embodied.

Our nervous system constantly communicates what the body needs—whether that’s safety, movement, or regulation. A child’s restlessness, withdrawal, or emotional outburst is information, not misbehavior. It is the body signaling that it needs attention, support, or a moment to reset.

When we view learning through a body-up lens, everything shifts. Instead of forcing children to conform to rigid expectations, we can recognize that a regulated nervous system is the foundation for focus, curiosity, and engagement. We can integrate movement, sensory experiences, and co-regulation into daily routines. We can understand that emotional safety comes first; cognitive learning follows naturally.

This approach does not replace academics—it enhances them. When the body feels safe and supported, the brain is free to learn, explore, and create.
Parents, teachers, and grandparents alike can benefit from understanding the nervous system’s role in learning. A child who is regulated and supported from the inside out is more likely to engage meaningfully with peers and teachers, persist through challenges without shutting down, and build resilience, confidence, and emotional intelligence.

By attending to the body, we cultivate classrooms, homes, and communities where children can thrive—not just academically, but socially, emotionally, and physically.
It’s time to rethink education. The body and nervous system are not extras or “nice-to-haves.” They are central to learning, behavior, and growth. When we embrace this perspective, we shift from correcting behavior to supporting the child, from controlling the body to guiding the mind—and from surviving school to truly thriving.

Because the missing piece in education isn’t more content, tests, or rules—it’s the body. And when we finally bring it back, everything changes.






 
 
 

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Tovah Petra, MA, is a trauma-informed somatic practitioner, relational guide, and Founder and CEO of The Spectrum School, a nonprofit preschool rooted in nervous system safety and connection for children with autism and related neurodivergent profiles.

Through coaching, family-focused support, intimate group work, writing, and her leadership at The Spectrum School, Tovah helps individuals, couples, and families reconnect with their bodies, deepen emotional intimacy, and cultivate relationships rooted in truth, safety, and self-trust.

Drawing on her Master’s degree in Human Development and Social Change, her background in Early Childhood Education, and two years of training in Somatica®, a trauma-informed, body-based relational modality, Tovah integrates nervous system science with lived relational experience. She offers specialized support for neurodivergent individuals and their families, helping both children and parents navigate challenges with greater regulation, resilience, and confidence.

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